Pivoting from court to mediation — who’s done it

But after 12 years of custody litigation in Cook County, I’m building a low‑conflict, client‑support model and considering a full‑time mediator role; if you’ve made this jump, what training or credentials opened doors for you (e.g., 40‑hour mediation, AFCC), and did you keep a small docket during the transition? I’m determined to reduce harm for families while keeping income steady and would appreciate any concrete steps that made the shift workable.

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In Cook, do the Center for Conflict Resolution 40‑hour and volunteer practicum, then add the DV module to qualify for the Domestic Relations roster; “40‑hour is table stakes” — the roster plus supervised cases is what opens doors (https://www.ccrchicago.org/training). I kept 2–3 low‑conflict matters and shifted the rest to flat‑fee consults until referrals started coming from judges and parenting coordinators — training wheels, but they work; have you applied for the roster yet?

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AFCC-IL mentorship plus RSI’s court ADR roadmap open doors: https://www.aboutrsi.org. Small caveat: update malpractice for mediation.

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I set two half‑days a week as mediation‑only, offered a flat‑fee “two sessions + MSA draft” package, and capped litigation at three files; pairing Collaborative Divorce Illinois training with a brief parenting‑coordination course made judges and therapists send me work — @d_gibbs23 did coffees with therapists move the needle more than bar events for you?

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